Thursday, May 17, 2007

She did it!


We spent the past weekend in Abilene attending our daughter's graduation from ACU.

She starts her job and career as a nurse in June!


We also got to eat at Joe Allen's, shop at Relics, see the Jacob's Dream sculpture on campus, and catch up with some great friends for lunch at Alleycats on Friday. Packing the Uhaul during a pouring thunderstorm will be a memory for years to come! We took several drives around town to visit favorite places we don't expect to see for awhile.

Abilene was as green as we've ever seen it! The Jacob's Dream sculpture is inspiring and beautiful...



















ACU and Abilene, thanks for everything!

Way to go Amers!

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Yum!

Today, Tucson hits the big league.
No, not a new sports team.
No, not even a new retail store.
Today, In-N-Out Burger opens in Tucson.

Can't you just taste a double-double animal style, grilled onions?

One of the larger privately-held restaurant chains, In-n-Out jumped into the Arizona market about 8-9 years ago, and is now expanding to Tucson. Long known in the California area, In-n-Out has a vast following of burger-hungry Arizonans, eager for some fresh cut fries or a chocolate shake.
Their largest burger is affectionately known as a 4x4 - four beef patties, four slices of cheese. I once saw a man eat 4 of them in one sitting, but it wasn't a pretty site.
Time for lunch!

Friday, April 20, 2007

2007

If the last few months are an indication, the rest of 2007 is going to be really something! Two weeks ago our daughter got married... 3 weeks from now our other daughter will graduate from college... our niece is getting married this summer... and I turn 50 in the fall.

I already posted a picture of the wedding, here is a picture of our family's new RN - we are very proud of her!

Here is a question - are you happy with your job or career? Or, have you found that you changed paths and pursued a different one?

Monday, April 09, 2007

Going to the chapel...



April 7, 2007

The day was beautiful...
We were honored by our guests...
Our joy overflows.

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Seasoned Salt

We had an interesting discussion in our life group on Sunday related to Bobby's sermon in Matthew 5. We specifically talked about Matthew 5:13-16:

"You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men."
"You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven."

As we discussed the different properties of salt - its seasoning, as a preservative, how it enhances our food - one of our group members made the comment that salt can also be corrosive. For example, salt put on roadways corrodes the underside of cars; or, consuming too much salt can contribute to high blood pressure and other health issues.

How do you think that might apply to this scripture? Can we, as followers of Christ, be corrosive? I would love to hear your thoughts!

Friday, February 02, 2007

Fun Things to do in Phoenix


You may know that we're planning a wedding for our daughter, and as a part of the invitation process, we'll include a little page of fun things to do while in the Phoenix area. Since it was all ready, I thought some of you might like a preview of things to do in the Phoenix area. Because of all the web addresses, I did not include them as links, so you'll have to cut and paste.

Fun Places to Shop -

www.fashionsquare.com
www.scottsdaledowntown.com
www.downtowntempe.com

Fun Things to do Outdoors -

Golf
www.arizonagolfer.com/courses/phoenix
www.teetimesinarizona.com/

Hiking
http://phoenix.gov/parks/hikephx.html
http://phoenix.gov/parks/hikesoth.html

Fun Museums & Exhibits -

The Phoenix Zoo www.phoenixzoo.org

Desert Botanical Garden www.dbg.org

Arizona Historical Society Museum at Papago Park
www.arizonahistoricalsociety.org/

Pueblo Grande Museum
http://phoenix.gov/parks/pueblo.html#museum

Arizona Science Center www.azscience.org
Heard Museum www.heard.org

Goldfield Ghost Town
www.goldfieldghosttown.com

If you've ever been to the Phoenix, what are some of your favorite things to do while in town?

Saturday, January 20, 2007

I haven't posted much since leaving for Christmas break on the 15th of December. Time just hasn't allowed much writing this past month.

Dave's mom passed away this week, at the too young age of 74. Although she was imprisoned by Alzheimer's, and the outlook was not going to improve, when it happened it was swift. It is not an easy thing to lose both your parents in 15 months.

Below is a picture taken in September 2005, hugging one of her granddaughters. She didn't know she was Grandma, she just knew she was loved. This was the last time my children got to see their grandmother, although her memories of her grandchildren were gone years before.


There is a season for every life. Enjoy each season. Spend time with your family, your friends. Listen to stories you might not get to hear in the next season. Love one another. God be with you until you meet again.

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Happy New Year!

Greetings in the new year, and may this year be a blessing to you.

The holidays behind us, our family now finds itself looking ahead to a new year that includes an upcoming wedding for one daughter and a college graduation for another. I'll be a mother-in-law - I pray that I will be worthy. I remember trying to transition from child to adult with my own parents - again, I pray that I will be worthy.

Today is back to work day - after two weeks away I hope to be able to go through all of my email (hundreds, but mostly junk/spam), clear all the voicemail, and open/distribute all the office mail. If those 3 things can be accomplished, I will consider today a success!

May God bless you richly in the coming year!

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

What is in the bottom of your frig?


One of the items on my list of things to accomplish today is to clean out the refrigerator. You know, throw out old food, wash the shelves, reorganize the regular inhabitants so that they're easy to find and use.

Every thing was going along smoothly until I hit the vegetable bin; then, I found something that I think used to be a cucumber. Yuck!

I washed up the bin and threw out the old food. I even found some leftovers in the freezer that we'll have for dinner tonight - hooray for not having to come up with a menu for dinner at 6:00 pm when I arrive home from work, and I'm tired from the day. I also found some still-good lettuce and other salad makings, which I chopped up and will use for my lunch today, and for dinner tonight.

While emptying the frig, I got to thinking about how I sometimes feel like what I found in the bottom of the vege bin... growing older, maybe a little moldy around the edges, in need of cleansing and renewal. While washing the bin, I thought of being washed by Jesus and being made clean again. And, while chopping up the vegetables for the salad, I thought of how God uses each of us to accomplish something for him; something that may not be easily accomplished individually, but when blended together, brings forth a completely new accomplishment.

I pray that you will be open to God's plan for you today.

2 Corinthians 4:16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Things to think about...

Sunday evening, as a part of our monthly congregational family night, our youth minister showed the film "Invisible Children" for anyone who wanted to see it. If you don't know anything about "Invisible Children," I invite you to go to their website - http://www.invisiblechildren.com . This is the story of 3 young men who traveled to northern Uganda and discovered children as young as 8 years old who were being abducted from their villages and homes, brainwashed, and forced to fight and kill. It is a sobering story.

I contrast that with my occasional complaining about things that aren't the way I want them to be. There is no excuse. Lord, please forgive me for my ungratefulness.

Thursday is Thanksgiving. For you, I hope that you will find a blessing in the day; and, if you think about it for a few minutes, abundant blessings!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Giving Thanks

I was supposed to be born on Thanksgiving, and my name was almost Diane. Upon my entrance to this world, I weighed slightly more than 5 pounds.

Today I begin the countdown of 365 days until I've lived for a half century. I don't know whether to rejoice or say "ouch".

But in reality I am astounded and thankful.

Astounded because I'm 49. How did that happen? I remember thinking that was so old! I don't feel much differently inside than I did when I was 25, although I'm grateful to have learned a few things along the way.

Thankful for so many things: life, husband, children, family, friends, joys, sorrows, challenges, blessings, the big things, and mostly the small things.

What will the next 365 days will bring?

This is the day the LORD has made;
let us rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

Friday, November 10, 2006

God's Creation

There is nothing like an Arizona sunset -



- or desert mountains



to awaken you to His creation.


For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities — his eternal power and divine nature — have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse. Romans 1:20 (NIV)

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Random musings...

I confess to being at a small loss for words - hence not much blogging recently. Just a few thoughts on my mind....

Are you tired of the political TV ads, computer generated phone calls, and the mega-conglomeration of signs posted at street corners? What an honor to be able to vote and live in the U.S.A! But, shameless campaigning for propositions that have hidden agendas and meanings, along with the smear campaigns by the competing candidates leave me anxious for the entire process to be over. We voted early, by mail, after spending several hours one evening pouring over the ballot and assorted campaign literature. 20 propositions are up for vote in So. Arizona, along with heated races between the candidates for Congress and the state legislature. Voting is sort of like investing - past performance (good or bad) is not a guarantee for future results (good or bad).

Are you looking forward to the new season of 24 in January? You can watch the trailer at http://www.24trailer.com/ . Scary! What will happen to Jack Bauer?! Some of the conservative radio talk shows have new lingo - people calling in saying they're a "Jack Bauer Conservative." Interesting thought, although I confess I'm not sure exactly what that means - perhaps having the ability to assess a situation quickly, act decisively without remorse, while all the while putting yourself in harm's way? Thoughts?

A Christian brother of ours is currently serving in Iraq and his newsletters home bring the far-away war to a sobering reality. Whether you agree with the war or not, the fact remains that we have many brave men and women serving overseas with honor. Here I sit at my computer, quietly drinking a cup of coffee. Our friend asks that we pray for peace.

There was another obituary in the paper the other day of yet another person who died of melanoma, at the young age of 46. Last month there was someone who was only 31. Keep wearing your sunscreen! I guess you don't have to deal with too many needless deaths to understand why my dermatologist is aggressive in removing suspicious growths.

We are enjoying our study in Biblical Archaeology - learning about places where Jesus, Abraham, Herod (the Great and Agrippa and Antipas), Pontius Pilate, and Paul lived and walked are enlightening. It is interesting to note that many places have been recently (in archaeological terms) excavated. The only known physical evidence of Pilate's existence was found in Caesarea (Maritima) in the 1950's, a reused stone plaque in the theater that was remodeled in the 3rd century C.E. (Common Era, replaced the old A.D.). The inscription reads "...the Tiberium, which Pontius Pilate, the Prefect of Judea, gave and dedicated." The stone plaque measures 32 by 27 inches. Pilate held the office of Prefect of Judea from 26 to 36 C.E. and lived in Caesarea. To build the harbor at Caesarea, the Herodian builders utilized hydraulic concrete, invented by the Romans. It was comprised of mortar, volcanic sand, pumice and lime, and because it was 3 times denser than water, it had the capability of hardening beneath the ocean surface - quite an accomplishment 2000 years ago. The Dome of the Rock in Jerusalem stands over the temple that was destroyed in 70 C.E. How do you suppose they moved 200 ton blocks to build the temple, of which now remains part of the Wailing Wall? Moving 200 tons is a challenge in this day even with huge earth moving equipment.

Just a few thoughts on my mind. What's on your mind?

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Habitual Tendencies

Do you have any habits?

Thinking of that question, did you immediately think of a good habit or a bad habit? I thought of a bad habit.

What makes a good habit? What makes a bad habit? And, how do they start?

A definition of habit (among others) according to Webster - a settled tendency or usual manner of behavior; a : a behavior pattern acquired by frequent repetition or physiologic exposure that shows itself in regularity or increased facility of performance b : an acquired mode of behavior that has become nearly or completely involuntary.

Now I can think of some bad habits that are almost completely involuntary, but it is harder for me to think of some good habits in that light. Perhaps our good habits don’t create guilt or negative feelings, so we can just consider them part of our daily routine?

Related words, according to Webster’s Online Thesaurus: addiction; disposition; bent, inclination, proclivity, tendency, turn; convention, form, mode, style; usage; manners, mores; groove, rote, routine, rut; affectation, airs, pose; attribute, characteristic, mark, trait; oddity, peculiarity, quirk, singularity, tic; strangeness, weirdness.

What do you think of the related words routine and rut; characteristic and trait; and, how do they fit into your habits?

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Skidboot the dog

A friend from work sent this link. If you have a few minutes, I recommend watching this video about Skidboot the dog. It is a special story.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5249518974978628334&q=skidboot&hl=en

Monday, October 09, 2006

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

There is something to be said for laughing.

Friday evening a friend and I surprised another friend to celebrate a birthday that ends in ZERO, and whisked her off to dinner and a campy audience-involved mystery theatre. Four actors, improvised script, great imaginative lines and music, and just plain fun. (The actor in drag turned out to be an alumni of my high school that I remembered. Although he did not remember me, it was perfectly fine because he was almost scary!)

The 3 of us have been friends for more than 20 years - through kids growing, houses moving, jobs changing, and more. As always, we had a wonderful time together. And we laughed.

Maybe you've heard the phrase "laughter is the best medicine." On a whim, I did a search on 'laughter' and found more than 15,000 websites dedicated to laughter. Did you know there is laughter yoga? To find out how laughter works physiologically, visit http://www.howstuffworks.com/laughter.htm. Whatever the effect, we just had fun. I came away from the weekend feeling lighter, and less bogged down.

I hope my friends had as much fun as I did. Happy Birthday!

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

I wish we'd ______ more while you were still here...

I've just finished reading the new book by Mitch Albom, "for one more day." In case you've never read one of Mitch Albom's books, he also wrote "Tuesdays with Morrie" and "The Five People You Meet in Heaven."

They're an easy read, yet somewhat thought provoking.

With his newest book, the author is asking the question - if, for one more day, you could go back and spend a day with a person in your life who has died, who was special to you, would you do it? Could you do it? The main character in this novel is a man who has an opportunity to spend one more day with his mother.

Who doesn't desire the chance to make a wrong, right? To utter once more the words "I love you" or "I miss you" or "I'm sorry?"

What an interesting concept.

My mother died of lung cancer a month to the day I was married, when I was 23 years old. I have now lived more years without her than I lived with her - a sobering thought. I have regrets. Having your parent die when you are just out of college and haven't yet really lived leaves a whole litany of "what ifs".

I believe the whole point of the book is really to live your life in such a way as to not have regrets, but I'd still love the opportunity for one more day.

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

This and That

The Big Kahuna in our home turned 51 today... I made his favorite dessert and cooked a delicious meal. We went out Saturday night to celebrate.


I've been contemplating on the passage in Ecclesiastes on a time for everything - chapter 3, verses 1-8:

There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:

a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,

a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,

a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,

a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,

a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,

a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,

a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.


Now reread the same passage thinking of situations in your life where you have scattered or gathered, loved or hated, been silent or spoken. Or think of a time when someone knew when it was time to give you an embrace or time to refrain. I've been contemplating on this for awhile.

We are still missing our Shorty although the burden is easing. He was in so much pain that it is somewhat of a relief knowing he doesn't have to endure that any longer. His cremated remains are sitting on our mantle for a time. We aren't currently searching for another pet. I want to honor his memory for awhile, and I think I'll know when we're ready again... but I still look at the classifieds and pet photos regularly.

There is a good article for ministers by Gordan MacDonald on knowing when it is the right time to leave a church and seek a new position. Having seen some good separations, and some not-so-good separations, I thought this was well presented. Although written for ministers and their churches, it has application for the secular job world as well. You can find the article at this address: http://www.ctlibrary.com/le/2002/summer/4.36.html.

Have a blessed day!

Friday, September 15, 2006

A Time for Everything



Shorty
May 16, 1994 - September 12, 2006

aka Short-stuff, Bubba, Buddy, Baby, Pumpkin-Pie

A wonderful dog and a part of our family.
Faithfully waited by the door every day for us to return home.
Loved going on walks until he couldn’t walk anymore.

Favorites

Hide and Seek Hold him still, count to 10, let Amy run and hide, and Shorty would come find her, and was tenacious in his pursuit.

Playing Ball (learned at the age of 8—proof that you can teach an old dog new tricks!)

His ‘babies’ that he never ‘killed’ but sometimes wounded, by ripping out the squeakers.

Kong (hunting cookies, what could be more fun?! Thanks, Allison!)

Sleeping on his back with his feet in the air; or, sleeping with his feet on the wall.

Attacking the ironing board… serious fun with loss of all rational control

Barking whenever the phone rang… certainly proving Pavlov's theory. As a herding dog, Shorty would chase and ‘herd’ any family member when they ran. When the girls were young, they would run to answer the phone when it rang. Soon, the phone ringing became cause for barking, which prompted feeding to quiet him, which prompted more barking, and so on...

Eating - carrots, cucumbers, Cheerios, dog cookies, plums, apples, toast, rice, chicken, anything we ate, and his dog food

Shorty came to live with us in 1995 when Amy, at the age of 9, decided she wanted a pure-bred dog. She asked, "If I save all my money from Christmas, my birthdays, my allowance, whenever I have money, could I buy a Welsh Corgi?" Thinking that there was no way she would save the amount of money required for this breed, we said "Yes, if you save all your money, you can use it to buy a dog."

Amy started looking through the classified section of the newspaper, and found an ad for someone who wanted to sell a Corgi for $100. We went to look at the dog, whose name was Winston. He was 9 months old. The couple who now owned him had acquired him from an elderly couple who had owned this young dog (they'd named Skeeter) from the time he was a puppy. It seems that Skeeter ate a rather good sized rock in their back yard and had to have it surgically removed from his stomach. Believing that he'd probably try the same trick again if he continued living in their home, the elderly couple gave Skeeter to this couple who already owned another Corgi. Well, Winston (formerly Skeeter) and their own Corgi had a wonderful time chasing each other around the back yard all day long, barking and generally having a simply wonderful time! Unfortunately, the husband worked nights and needed to sleep during the day and couldn't stand all the noise... hence, they'd decided to keep their Corgi and find a new home for Winston.

For Amy, it was love at first sight. We went back to pick up Winston, and introduced him at the park to our other dog Buffy. We gave Winston a new name - Shorty. Now at the age of 21, Amy hardly remembers a time when Shorty wasn't with us.

Many people will say that a dog is just a pet. For us, Shorty was part of our family and we will forever miss him.

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Urban Legends


It happened again today.

I received an e-mail from someone who forwarded something they assumed was correct, which also happened to be something they really wanted to believe.

Wikipedia defines Urban Legends as the following:
Urban legends are a kind of folklore consisting of stories often thought to be factual by those circulating them (see rumor). The term is often used with a meaning similar to the expression "apocryphal story." Urban legends are not necessarily untrue, but they are often false, distorted, exaggerated, or sensationalized. Despite the name, urban legends do not necessarily take place in an urban setting. The name is designed to differentiate them from traditional folklore in preindustrial times.


A friend pointed me to this web site some time ago - http://www.snopes.com/ .
If you're ever questioning whether a story or 'urban legend' you've heard is true, go to this web site and search for your story. They have an extensive list, with sources cited.

We've all done it at some point - passed on some juicy piece of news. But before you hit that 'send' or 'forward' key, please check out whether what you are about to send is really true. Let's not spread rumor or gossip no matter who it is about, or how interesting it may seem.